21 Therapist-Recommended Self-Care Gifts to Give During the 2024 Holidays

Give Them Peace: 21 Therapist-Recommended Self-Care Gifts to Give This Holiday Season

Stress is something most of us are experiencing to some degree. According to the American Psychological Association, 77 percent of adults in the United States are experiencing significant stress due to uncertainty about the future.

Stress can be exacerbated by plenty of other issues: money, pressure to perform at work or school, and major life changes. If not checked, stress can lead to chronic anxiety.

Speaking of anxiety, it is unfortunately quite common. Nearly 20 percent of adults in the United States have been diagnosed with an anxiety disorder in the past year, and 31 percent of adults will experience an anxiety disorder in their lifetime.

This might sound daunting, but the good news is you can do something to combat the impact of stress — like developing a self-care regimen. While the term “self-care” may be all the rage on social media, it’s more than just a hashtag. Research suggests that ongoing and consistent self-care results in an overall improved quality of life and lower healthcare costs. It is also linked to lowered rates of morbidity and mortality.

In the spirit of developing a healthier lifestyle, we’ve curated a gift guide for anyone in your life who needs to chill out. From the ultra-cool wellness junkie to the way too stressed-out loved one, we’ve got you covered. Read on to find the best gifts for the people in your life. You might even find a couple of things for yourself along the way.

A Few Things for the Wellness Obsessed

You may have someone in your life who is already wellness obsessed. They might quote Andrew Huberman over dinner and throw around terms like “biohacking” and “circadian rhythm.” Don’t be intimidated — we know a few things you can get them that they don’t already own.

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Acupressure Mat and Pillow Set by All In Motion

$29.97 at Target
$29.99
If you can’t put your finger on what to give your loved one, try this gift. Acupressure, a technique derived from traditional Chinese medicine that focuses on activating certain body parts with pressure, is known for decreasing stress.

Rather than shelling out money to get an acupressure massage, laying on this mat can provide a similar form of relaxation.
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Open Subscription

$20 per month or $150 annually

The truly wellness obsessed are likely familiar with most of the meditation, yoga, and workout apps out there. Open is a movement, mindfulness, and breathwork app that offers elevated aesthetics and classes offered by a wide variety of teachers. It is relatively new, too, so this may be the first they’ve heard of this app.

Ritual Stress Relief

$53.99 at Amazon
$59.99Now 10% Off

We could all use a little stress relief. The Ritual Stress Relief supplement uses a blend of ashwagandha, L-theanine, and saffron to regulate cortisol levels and promote a sense of calm. We especially appreciate that Ritual engages in third-party testing to ensure all its supplements are safe and aligned with the current heavy metals and microbes guidelines.

Stone Diffuser by Vitruvi

$103.99 at Amazon
$129.99Now 20% Off
Essential oils may help your nervous system by minimizing exhaustion, decreasing stress, and helping you get a sound night of sleep.

 The Vitruvi Stone Diffuser will look beautiful bedside. Don’t forget to throw in a few essential oils while you’re at it — we like the Rest Diffuser Blend Kit.

Best Buys for Your Stressed-Out Loved Ones

These picks are best suited for your colleague who calls you hyperventilating anytime a deadline is approaching, your tightly wound daughter-in-law who is all too hard on herself, or your burnt-out partner who keeps repeating how stressed they are all the time.

Moon Juice Magnesi-Om

$39.60 at Amazon
$44Now 10% Off
Goodnight Moon Juice, goodnight stress. High stress levels can cause us to lose out on essential magnesium levels in the body. In turn, this can hike up our stress response.

Replenish this essential element with Moon Juice’s Magnesi-Om, a tasty powder you can sip nightly.

Truvani Plant-Based Protein Powder

$39.50 at Amazon
$49.86Now 21% Off

Let’s face it: We’ve all been hangry, and it is an unpleasant experience. Having some protein powder on hand makes for a quick snack that’ll keep you satiated. We like Truvani’s vegan protein powder — it is tasty and suitable for various food sensitivities. Read more about our experience with Truvani in our review of protein powders.

Ancient Minerals Magnesium Bath Flakes

$28.45 at Amazon
$29.95Now 5% Off

Relieve muscle tension with a soothing magnesium bath. These bath flakes are the perfect way to elevate an evening ritual, ease achy muscles, or take the edge off a rough day. If you want to up the relaxation, pair this with a glass of the Moon Juice Magnesi-Om.

Gifts for the Self-Care Novice

When we say self-care novice, think of your friend who has never had a professional massage, or the person who even rolls their eyes at the mention of the term self-care. Anything you give them will probably knock their socks off, so have fun opening their mind up to how good it can feel to take care of themselves.

Osea Golden Glow Body Set

$90 at Amazon
Osea is known for its line of body products with clean ingredients. For those who are new to the world of self-care, an at-home kit like this that includes a lymphatic drainage body brush, a body scrub, and soothing body oil can be the perfect introduction.
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Headspace Subscription

$12.99 monthly or $69.99 per year

Meditation can be helpful for physical issues like chronic pain and insomnia, plus mental health concerns like anxiety and depression.

 Help them chill out with a Headspace subscription. This app has tons of mindfulness and meditation content, plus coaches they can opt to work with one-on-one.

Pema Chödrön's Compassion Cards: Teachings for Awakening the Heart in Everyday Life

$10.98 at Amazon
$19.95Now 45% Off

This is perfect for the self-care novice who is consistently hard on themselves. Buddhist author and teacher Pema Chödrön is a wealth of wisdom. Her compassion cards are a great way to implement self-love daily. Plus, it couldn’t be easier to add to a daily routine. Simply pull a card in the morning and reflect on it for the rest of the day.

Top Picks for the Screen-Time Junkies

It might feel like there is no way to escape screens. We need them for school, work, and even navigating our way home from the office. But, a reliance on screen time can have heavy consequences on our mental and physical health, like increased stress hormones and even insulin resistance.

 Here are some ideas to gently guide folks away from screens — or at least use screens in the best way they can.

Amazon Kindle Paperwhite

$149.99 at Amazon
Okay, suggesting a screen-based product as a gift for screen-time junkies may seem weird, but hear us out. The Kindle Paperwhite model has a bit less blue light than other Kindle options. You can also adjust the brightness and color temperature to reduce the amount of blue light. Finally, reading can help folks feel sleepy, and Kindles don’t offer the option of surfing the web, making it easier to get off the device rather than scrolling endlessly on a phone. 

‘The Mindfulness Coloring Coloring Book’ by Emma Farrarons

$8.13 at Amazon
$9.95Now 18% Off

Awaken their inner child with a good coloring session. The Mindfulness Coloring Book is a national bestseller that conveniently fits in a pocket. Instead of going on social media while waiting for a meeting to begin, they can color and find a moment of relaxation. Don’t forget to get them some colored pencils, too.

The Hygge Game

$19.99 at Amazon
If they’re big on entertaining and are always hosting movie nights, give them a gentle nudge to look away from the screen and connect instead. The Hygge Game is a card game filled with icebreaker questions designed to have folks connect on a deeper level.

No One Needs Self-Care Like New Parents

Ask any parent how that first year of their kid’s life was; they’ll probably admit it was quite difficult. Between a lack of sleep, no time, and the ongoing hazing of learning about how to care for a new life, new parents need all the help they can get. Here are a few gift ideas to help them feel supported.
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Green Chef

Starts at $11.99 per meal

Many new parents struggle with feeling exhausted and overwhelmed, leading them to skimp on their health and wellness habits. A subscription to Green Chef, the first organic meal kit, is a great way to eat well with minimal prep time and no extra trips to the grocery store. You can expect meals for any diet, including plant-based, gluten-free, Mediterranean, and keto. These meals focus heavily on lean proteins, veggies, and whole grains.

Nespresso VertuoPop+

$115.49 at Amazon
$129.95Now 11% Off

After a long night, a hot cup of coffee the next day is the perfect way to up the self-care game. The new parents in your life will be grateful you thought of this practical improvement to their mornings. You can brew anything from cold brew to espresso, making this an excellent contender to your local coffee shop habit. Nespresso has a pod recycling program to cut down on waste, and you can’t beat the convenience of having coffee ready within seconds.

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OurRitual Subscription

$208 per month

New parenthood can be tough on a relationship, even under the best circumstances. OurRitual is an online platform that offers support to couples through weekly therapy sessions and self-guided lessons. Strengthening a couple’s bond as they raise a child is more than just self-care; it’s paving the way for a healthy family in the years, perhaps even generations that follow.

Gifts Your Teens Will Love

Teens need plenty of self-care, especially with sharply rising rates of depression among young people ages 12 to 17.

While a big part of supporting your teen is being present and creating a safe space for them to share their emotions, we also believe gifts that promote connection and relaxation are wonderful tools to equip them with.
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Calm Subscription

Calm is a mindfulness app with hundreds of hours of guided meditation, plenty of sleep and relaxation music tracks, sleep stories, and programming designed specifically for teens. Do you think your kid might be skeptical? Implement family meditation time as a new routine in your household to promote self-care and wellness.

We’re Not Really Strangers Game

$25 at Amazon

We’re Not Really Strangers is a card game designed to deepen relationships. The game asks all sorts of vulnerable questions, inviting participants to admit to their insecurities or share the last time they surprised themselves. It is designed for folks 15 and up, so it is perfect for the teen in your life who has outgrown family board games and isn’t really into video games. They’ll love bringing this along to parties, offering a fun way to create memories with their friends.

FAQ

What are some free ways to practice self-care?

According to licensed marriage and family therapist Lauren Pietra, there is no shortage of free ways to practice self-care. She recommends journaling, reading at home, taking a bath, snuggling with your pet, hiking, and dancing as free and accessible ways to take good care of yourself.

If you’re not convinced these are the best options for your loved one, ask them what they feel they could use support with. Perhaps they’ve always wanted to try a fitness class, so a gift certificate from a local Pilates studio could be a great gift. Or, they might be craving a long massage, in which case you could find a practitioner in your area who might be a good fit.
This is a great idea. Consider a spa day, yoga class, or even sound bath meditation. Alternatively, offer to come over and cook them dinner or help them with a major house project they’ve been putting off.

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Julia Childs Heyl, MSW

Author

Julia Childs Heyl, MSW, is a California-based clinical social worker and mental health writer. Her writing often focuses on mental health disparities and uses critical race theory as her preferred theoretical framework. She has been published by Verywell Mind, Health, Parents, Shape, Yahoo, and more.

In her clinical work, Julia specializes in treating people of color experiencing anxiety, depression, and trauma through depth therapy and EMDR (eye movement desensitization and reprocessing) trauma therapy. Identifying as a holistic-minded clinician, Julia views mental health as a relationship between the soul, self, and systemic structures in our lives. Her formative training includes developing mental health programming specifically for Black survivors of domestic violence and sexual assault and conducting research on generational trauma within the Black community.

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