Mother’s Day Gift Ideas After Pregnancy and Infant Loss
Mother’s Day is meant to celebrate life and motherhood, but for many, it’s a reminder of what’s been lost. For parents grieving a miscarriage, stillbirth, neonatal loss, or infant death, this holiday can reopen the rawest wounds. Happy commercials or themed end-caps at the store lead to them silently mourning the baby they never got to hold or the child they had to say goodbye to too soon.
As a licensed therapist working in perinatal mental health, I’ve seen how the impact of this holiday is felt in different ways across parenthood. Some grieving parents aren’t acknowledged in the traditional sense because they don’t have a living child. Others know there’s a baby’s name missing from their Mother’s Day card. Either way, their love, their pain, and their memories are real.
If someone in your life is grieving this kind of loss, this gift guide offers therapist-recommended ways to show your support. These meaningful gifts don’t fix grief, but they do say, “I see you. I remember with you.”

I Had a Miscarriage, by Jessica Zucker, PhD
I Had a Miscarriage: A Memoir, A Movement, by Jessica Zucker, PhD, is a brave, validating companion for anyone experiencing pregnancy or infant loss. Written by a psychologist who experienced her own miscarriage, this book blends personal narrative and clinical insight in a way that makes readers feel seen rather than silenced. It gently challenges the stigma surrounding reproductive grief and creates space for every messy, unspoken part of loss. Whether you're gifting it to someone you love or keeping it close for yourself, this book offers the kind of permission and presence that grieving parents need most.

Normalize It: Upending the Silence, Stigma, and Shame That Shape Women's Lives, by Jessica Zucker, PhD

Aura Carver Digital Photo Frame

Ours

HOKA Bondi 9 Cushioned Running Shoes

Pure Enrichment PureRelief XL Extra-Long Back and Neck Heating Pad

Donation in Baby’s Name to a Pregnancy Loss Organization
Making a donation in your baby’s name turns grief into meaningful action. Many parents find comfort in knowing that their loss can help others who are navigating similar pain. Organizations like Star Legacy Foundation work tirelessly to support families experiencing pregnancy loss. By providing vital resources and funding research to prevent future losses, these causes create a lasting legacy that you can be a part of.

Pinkpum 20'' Eucalyptus Wreath
The best thing my mother-in-law did after my miscarriage was to give us an artificial wreath. The wilting of flower bouquets can serve as a reminder of death. Instead, gift something that outlasts the hard seasons. This eucalyptus wreath can hang on a front door, a nursery that never got filled, or a quiet space in their home. It’s so much more than decor.

DreamTime Aromatherapy Comfort Neck Wrap

Still Born Still a Mother Crewneck Sweatshirt
Acknowledging that a woman is still a mother after a loss is an important act of validation. The “Still Born, Still a Mother” sweatshirt serves as a gentle reminder that even though a child may not be physically present, a mother’s love and identity remain. Available in three colors, it's a cozy way to provide comfort for her navigating a complicated journey. The crewneck cut and minimalistic design can be worn as a quiet statement or a personal symbol that she is still a mother, regardless of the circumstances.

XBage Mommy of an Angel Necklace Sterling Silver Pendant Necklace

Mr. Sandman Weighted Blanket for Adults, 15 lbs

The Baby Loss Guide, by Zoë Clark-Coates
When the grief feels too heavy to put into words, The Baby Loss Guide offers a lifeline. This compassionate book by Zoë Clark-Coates walks parents through the raw emotions of baby loss, offering guidance, solace, and practical advice. With chapters on the conflicting feelings within grief, its pages reassure you that healing, however slow, is possible.

Customized Keepsake Box
A chemical pregnancy can leave parents with few physical reminders, but a small keepsake box provides a beautiful space to hold onto what remains. Customize the lid with a family photo, a symbolic image, or the picture of a positive pregnancy test. Whether the box holds a pregnancy test cap or a small memento, it serves as a way to honor the fleeting yet significant connection.

Slip Pure Silk Pillowcase

Bearfruit Jewelry Deux Birthstone Necklace
Featuring two birthstones, this delicate piece allows parents to keep a tangible connection to their child. The necklace's subtle design provides a personal tribute without drawing unwanted attention, which may be helpful to parents who made the heartbreaking decision to end a wanted pregnancy for medical reasons. In a world that doesn't know how to acknowledge termination for medical reasons (TFMR), this necklace offers a way to carry their baby's memory with dignity. Wearing such a piece can serve as a daily remembrance of a baby lost too soon.

Innerwell
As a mother facing the weight of loss, moving forward can feel like an impossible task. Innerwell’s personalized resources like mood tracking and guided meditations compliment steady steps taken in therapy. With options for trauma-informed care, such as eye-movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR), somatic therapy, or ketamine-assisted therapy, Innerwell is the support system you need to heal without feeling rushed or forced.

Pavilion Light Your Way Memorial Wick Soy Wax Candle

Audible Subscription
Sometimes the best way to escape from grief — if only for a moment — is through a story. An Audible subscription grants you access to a vast library of audiobooks, podcasts, and exclusive content. Parents can lose themselves in a different world whether they’re seeking inspiration, laughter, or simply a mental break from reality. With the ability to listen on the go, it’s a coping strategy you can access anywhere.

Therabox Self Care Subscription Box

Held: 31 Biblical Reflections on God's Comfort and Care in the Sorrow of Miscarriage, by Abbey Wedgeworth
No heavy theology or perfect faith required. Held offers 31 gentle, Scripture-based reflections designed to meet grieving moms exactly where they are. Balancing raw honesty with biblical comfort, this devotional supports emotional and spiritual healing without forcing silver linings. It doesn’t offer clichés or easy answers. Instead, it reminds her that God is near to her in her sorrow.

Sunbasket
After pregnancy or infant loss, even the smallest tasks, like figuring out dinner, can feel impossible. A gift like Sunbasket removes the burden of meal planning and cooking. For grieving parents, this is more than a convenience — it’s a reminder that they’re cared for. It gives them one less thing to manage during a time when survival is enough.

Night Sky Classic Star Map Print
Even on Mother’s Day, dads mourning a pregnancy loss are overlooked. This custom star map captures the exact alignment of the stars on a significant date, such as the day they learned they were going to be fathers or the day of their loss. Grief is not limited to one parent. Instead, it belongs to both. So if you’re looking for a sacred keepsake that says, “You are still a father, and this moment matters,” here’s the perfect gift.
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Riley Blanton, MS, LMFT
Author
Riley Blanton, MS, LMFT, is a clinician specializing in reproductive mental health care in Wichita, Kansas, and an experienced freelance health writer. Her articles have covered topics such as mental health, pregnancy, perinatal and postpartum health, abortion care, the foster care system and adoption, women's health, and the care of children with disabilities. Her work has been published in Health, Parents, Verywell Mind, and Verywell Health.
Riley served as the communications director for the Kansas State Chapter of Postpartum Support International, an organization that aims to promote the awareness, education, prevention, and treatment of perinatal mental health issues affecting parents, families, and caregivers and she remains a member of this organization. She is also the founder of the research-based website Postpartum Brain and a private practice, Holding New Therapy, that specializes in perinatal mental health.
She received a master's degree in marriage and family therapy from Friends University, where her thesis focused on the relationship stressors that can arise with child-bearing couples. She also received a bachelor's degree in psychology from Old Dominion University.
In her free time, Riley enjoys reading voraciously, baking with rambunctious toddlers, and writing poetry.

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